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\n<\/span><\/span>Most of us (whose mother tongue is not English) have been learning English for years. <\/span><\/span>
\nBut sometimes there are questions to which we <\/span><\/span>don’t know how to explain<\/span>. <\/span><\/span>What questions<\/span> am I talking about? <\/span>For example, everyone knows that ‘<\/span>take your time<\/span>‘ is polite, right. <\/span>But the <\/span>question<\/span> is: why<\/span>? <\/span>
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A. Example 1<\/span><\/i><\/b>: Take a seat. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n   <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n
<\/a>When a woman asks you to ‘take a seat’, do you really TAKE the seat<\/span> with your hands<\/span>? <\/span>No, of course <\/span>not<\/span>! What do I mean? I mean when your friend says ‘Take the handbag for me’, you will carry<\/span> the handbag, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

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\n<\/span>But it is a different ‘story’ for ‘take a seat’. I guess nobody will really hold or carry a chair<\/span> on hearing ‘take a seat’, right?<\/span><\/p>\n
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\n<\/span>Why? <\/span>There is a <\/span><\/span>mismatch<\/span> between the verb ‘take’ and the action ‘sit’, as shown below: <\/span>Take<\/span><\/b> VS <\/span>Sit<\/span>.<\/b>
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\n<\/span>What do I mean by ‘mismatch<\/span>‘? Move on to example 2.<\/span>
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B. Example 2: <\/span>Do something<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

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\n<\/span><\/span>In this example, there is <\/span><\/span>a match<\/span> between ‘do’ and ‘do’. <\/span>That is ‘<\/span>the verb <\/span>=<\/span> <\/span>the action<\/span>‘. <\/span><\/b>In this case, it is an <\/span>order<\/span> <\/span>(<\/span>impolite<\/span>).<\/span>
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\n<\/span>There are lots of examples regarding this ‘match’:<\/span>
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Give<\/span> me the details<\/span>. ( <\/span><\/span>at your office<\/span>)<\/span><\/li>\n
Take<\/span> that chewing gum out of your mouth.<\/span> (at your school<\/span>)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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C. A Little Theory<\/span><\/h2>\n
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So what is the little theory? <\/span>
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\n<\/span>When there is a match<\/b><\/span> between the verb and the real action, it is impolite, as shown in ‘<\/span>Verb<\/span> = Action<\/span> —————> <\/span><\/span>impolite<\/span>‘.   <\/span>
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\n<\/span>So according to the above little theory, ‘take your time<\/span>‘ is <\/span><\/b><\/span>polite<\/b><\/span>.<\/span>
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\n<\/span><\/span><\/span>—————————–<\/span><\/span><\/span>
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